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I’ve been reading as others discuss their grad school experiences, struggles as well as successes, and thought I’d write some about my own experience in higher ed. Although I’m no longer in the field or really in academia at all, I did enjoy my time there for the most part, although it was exhausting and draining and stressful. And it doesn’t have to be, in an ideal world. Anyone should be able to pursue a post-graduate degree if they desire, for whatever reason, and not have it adversely affect their life, finances, whatever. People should be allowed to pursue education for its own sake, disciplinae gratia disciplina (scientiae gratia scientia? whatever works).

So I’ve had my theme set to Ananke so far and it’s been nice, but I think I’d like to check out some other themes and try them on. So if the site looks a little weird lately, I’m trying out new themes. We’ll see how it goes.

I’ve been playing a lot of videogames during the break(s) from work over the past couple of weeks. I started Final Fantasy VII: Crisis Core a little while back, as well as Kingdom Hearts: Birth by Sleep, and PSP emulation works pretty well on the laptop, so that’s been fun. But I’ve hit kind of a brick wall on the former, and just haven’t revisited the latter yet. I’ve mentioned this recently on Mastodon, but honestly, I keep coming back to the notion that the Super Nintendo is probably my favorite system of all time. NES is a close second, but I’ve had trouble reconnecting with the NES; it is difficult to get invested in those games any more, but a SNES game I can really dive into. Zelda and Zelda II are notable exceptions, as they’re really quite rich. But NES RPGs are somewhat inscrutable and inaccessible to me; I’ve tried quite a few of them and they just aren’t entirely my thing. I would much rather play the Origins port of Final Fantasy than the original, and I really couldn’t get into II (Japanese), and III was also really just not my thing.

82 … ac uenti uelut agmine facto

So this weekend we finished our move-out from the apartment. It took nearly 7 hours to finish everything up; multiple carloads, unloading and repacking boxes/crates, whatever. It was a real pain ultimately; my spouse said afterwards, “We’re hiring movers next time we do this.” I’m inclined to concur with that as I was absolutely wiped out that evening and the next day. I was supposed to play D&D on Sunday but I’m really kinda glad we had to reschedule to next Sunday. Worked out OK for me.

domus nova means “new house” in Latin. And that’s really what this is about. My spouse and I started looking for houses in the start of August, were referred to excellent realtors by dear friends of ours, and started the process by meeting with said realtors. Then we started looking at listings online and trying to find something we would like. We told our realtors our general parameters and so they tailored listings to those, and sent them to us daily. thus the process started in early August, and we spoke with a lender about securing financing. My parents have said for years that they want to help us get into a house, so they planned on helping us with a down payment. and believe me, we wouldn’t get into a house without their help, not in a very very long time.

hi everyone. it’s been awhile and I’m sorry I haven’t written. I’ve been rather oblique about this elsewhere, but we closed on a house at the end of September, and we’ve been working on moving ever since. My mom came out for a few days to help out, which was immensely helpful, but also really good to see her. I’d like to write at greater length about this when the dust settles a little more, so to speak, though.